Wish to be human

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Whoever said “life isn’t fair” was probably speaking to a child. If you ever want to clear a room, mention that “unfair” is not being able to get pregnant, no one can hold a candle to that. Well that’s probably not really true, I guess dying would be worse. But in a way, this has been like a death, only I wake up every day to its daunting reality.
How many more babies is Angelina going to have? Does that drive anyone else crazy???

5 Responses to “Wish to be human”

  1. Candice says:

    LOL! I’m so glad someone said that! It must be nice to have everything…you’d think Brad would be enough!

    My colleague’s daughter is pregnant..she’s been married five minutes! The hits just keep on comin…

  2. Michelle says:

    I have a good one! A friend at work told me she was pregent and she had to go as far as telling me that it happenend the first time!! I mean really have you not heard me every month for the last year cry because once again it didn’t happen!! I don’t get it!!

  3. Amy says:

    I have one to top them all… After we have had 6 years of infertility, multiple miscarriages and a recent stillbirth my husband’s cousin called to vent how rough it is for her emotionally since she has not gotten pregnant. I asked how long she had been trying. This was her 2nd month and she said she was going to give up on pregnancy and that I (of all people) couldn’t understand the “emotional trauma” she experiences when the stick comes back negative. She has never seen a RE, she’s only trying naturally for 2 months after just coming of b/c pills and is going to tell me how rough it is??? WTF??? Has she not been part of this family and watched what I’ve endured?? Too funny how oblivious some people are

  4. Denise says:

    I went out to a memorial dinner for my stepfather. My sister in law was there (preg. with # 2) and all she did was keep complaining about all she couldn’t eat and all the rules there are wjen your preg . So I said out loud “just be thankful you are able to have these rules” Well, you could have heard a pin drop. I continued eating my fresh mozz. lol

  5. bev says:

    Thank you!!
    My husband and I have been struggling to have a baby for close to 3 years now. We attempted fertility treatments in Toronto, a couple years ago, but my panic attacks got in the way.
    My younger unmarried sister has given me an adorable nephew, Charlie. But every time I see him, or hear him on the phone or see him on Skype, I am reminded that I am not whole. Not only for not having a baby, but also for the fact my body cannot naturally have a baby. There are many times I feel alien.
    Thank you for finally putting to words a feeling I thought I was alone feeling

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