Comments on: Wish to be human http://www.wishtobeamommy.com/2009/10/wish-to-be-human/#utm_source=feed&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=feed True Confessions From The Fertility Hopeful Community Wed, 01 Sep 2010 12:59:05 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: bev http://www.wishtobeamommy.com/2009/10/wish-to-be-human/comment-page-1/#comment-288 bev Sun, 21 Feb 2010 21:55:45 +0000 http://www.wishtobeamommy.com/?p=137#comment-288 Thank you!! My husband and I have been struggling to have a baby for close to 3 years now. We attempted fertility treatments in Toronto, a couple years ago, but my panic attacks got in the way. My younger unmarried sister has given me an adorable nephew, Charlie. But every time I see him, or hear him on the phone or see him on Skype, I am reminded that I am not whole. Not only for not having a baby, but also for the fact my body cannot naturally have a baby. There are many times I feel alien. Thank you for finally putting to words a feeling I thought I was alone feeling Thank you!!
My husband and I have been struggling to have a baby for close to 3 years now. We attempted fertility treatments in Toronto, a couple years ago, but my panic attacks got in the way.
My younger unmarried sister has given me an adorable nephew, Charlie. But every time I see him, or hear him on the phone or see him on Skype, I am reminded that I am not whole. Not only for not having a baby, but also for the fact my body cannot naturally have a baby. There are many times I feel alien.
Thank you for finally putting to words a feeling I thought I was alone feeling

]]> By: Denise http://www.wishtobeamommy.com/2009/10/wish-to-be-human/comment-page-1/#comment-14 Denise Tue, 27 Oct 2009 17:55:32 +0000 http://www.wishtobeamommy.com/?p=137#comment-14 I went out to a memorial dinner for my stepfather. My sister in law was there (preg. with # 2) and all she did was keep complaining about all she couldn't eat and all the rules there are wjen your preg . So I said out loud "just be thankful you are able to have these rules" Well, you could have heard a pin drop. I continued eating my fresh mozz. lol I went out to a memorial dinner for my stepfather. My sister in law was there (preg. with # 2) and all she did was keep complaining about all she couldn’t eat and all the rules there are wjen your preg . So I said out loud “just be thankful you are able to have these rules” Well, you could have heard a pin drop. I continued eating my fresh mozz. lol

]]> By: Amy http://www.wishtobeamommy.com/2009/10/wish-to-be-human/comment-page-1/#comment-13 Amy Mon, 26 Oct 2009 15:20:28 +0000 http://www.wishtobeamommy.com/?p=137#comment-13 I have one to top them all... After we have had 6 years of infertility, multiple miscarriages and a recent stillbirth my husband's cousin called to vent how rough it is for her emotionally since she has not gotten pregnant. I asked how long she had been trying. This was her 2nd month and she said she was going to give up on pregnancy and that I (of all people) couldn't understand the "emotional trauma" she experiences when the stick comes back negative. She has never seen a RE, she's only trying naturally for 2 months after just coming of b/c pills and is going to tell me how rough it is??? WTF??? Has she not been part of this family and watched what I've endured?? Too funny how oblivious some people are I have one to top them all… After we have had 6 years of infertility, multiple miscarriages and a recent stillbirth my husband’s cousin called to vent how rough it is for her emotionally since she has not gotten pregnant. I asked how long she had been trying. This was her 2nd month and she said she was going to give up on pregnancy and that I (of all people) couldn’t understand the “emotional trauma” she experiences when the stick comes back negative. She has never seen a RE, she’s only trying naturally for 2 months after just coming of b/c pills and is going to tell me how rough it is??? WTF??? Has she not been part of this family and watched what I’ve endured?? Too funny how oblivious some people are

]]> By: Michelle http://www.wishtobeamommy.com/2009/10/wish-to-be-human/comment-page-1/#comment-11 Michelle Mon, 19 Oct 2009 17:18:55 +0000 http://www.wishtobeamommy.com/?p=137#comment-11 I have a good one! A friend at work told me she was pregent and she had to go as far as telling me that it happenend the first time!! I mean really have you not heard me every month for the last year cry because once again it didn't happen!! I don't get it!! I have a good one! A friend at work told me she was pregent and she had to go as far as telling me that it happenend the first time!! I mean really have you not heard me every month for the last year cry because once again it didn’t happen!! I don’t get it!!

]]> By: Candice http://www.wishtobeamommy.com/2009/10/wish-to-be-human/comment-page-1/#comment-10 Candice Mon, 19 Oct 2009 15:46:56 +0000 http://www.wishtobeamommy.com/?p=137#comment-10 LOL! I'm so glad someone said that! It must be nice to have everything...you'd think Brad would be enough! My colleague's daughter is pregnant..she's been married five minutes! The hits just keep on comin... LOL! I’m so glad someone said that! It must be nice to have everything…you’d think Brad would be enough!

My colleague’s daughter is pregnant..she’s been married five minutes! The hits just keep on comin…

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